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DeSimone, James John May 14, 1968 - January 28, 2023

James John DeSimone, age 54, of Hackettstown died Saturday, January 28, 2023 at home in Hackettstown.  James was born May 14, 1968 in Passaic, NJ. He is the son of James M. and Milena (Fedel) DeSimone.

James was employed by All State Motors, Perth Amboy, NJ as their General Manager.  James was an avid Dallas Cowboys fan, loved “Batman” and Harley Davidson Motor Cycles.  In addition Jim fought courageously against Colon Cancer for the past 6 years with the help and support of the dedicated staff of the Sloane Kettering Memorial Hospital, NY.  Jim was a loving and compassionate Husband and father, was devoted to his family and will be deeply missed.

In addition to his parents, he is survived by his beloved wife, Madeline (Curcio) DeSimone, his loving son, Anthony DeSimone and companion Florentina Ukella and devoted daughter, Marisa DeSimone and husband Jared Olah; his brother, John “Johnny” DeSimone and wife Antonella and their children, Brandie and Dara, his sister, Milena DeSimone-Sillett and husband Dan and their children, Julianna and Matthew.

The funeral will be held 10:30 am on Thursday, February 2 at Good Shepherd R.C. Church, 48 Tranquility Road County Route 517, Andover, NJ with Father Emerson officiating.

Visitation will be Wednesday, February 1 from 4-8 pm at Cochran Funeral Home, 905 High Street, Hackettstown, NJ.

In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to FXCK Cancer Foundation at info@fcancerfoundation.org in memory of James.

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    Ed Maines says

    There truly are no words. Miss you, Jimmy D…

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    cindy goglia says

    My deepest condolences to you all. Jimmy was one of the best. I have so many fond memories of working with him and lots of laughs. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

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    Debbie B Fiorello says

    No words I will miss you Jim. Rest in Peace.

    • Greg M says

      It’s a sad day when we lose such a fantastic guy. I met Jim years ago on the baseball field when we coached the kids. I’ll always remember his patience and great attitude….and that great smile. Over the years, I didn’t see him often, but we bought several cars from him and he always treated us like family. He was a great guy that was taken too soon. My deepest condolences to the entire family. RIP Jim.

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    Eileen Cornell says

    Maddie, Anthony and Marissa, I am so so sorry for the loss of your king of hearts….
    My heart breaks for you, Madeline as you first loss your best friend and now your beloved Jimmy to this vicious disease…… You are all in my prayers, everyday RIP, Jimmy

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    Sarah Wolfe says

    No words can even come to close to how great of a person Jim was and how much he will be missed. My thoughts and prayers to the family and we miss and love you so much Jim

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    Kelly Senyszyn says

    I truly sorry for the loss of this courageous man. No words can replace the sorrow that you feel. Just know we feel your pain.

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    Stacey lampkin says

    Another amazing angel gets his wing. Fly high Jimmy D. You’ve seen some of my mistakes guide me to the right path you’ve always knew I could do. Great things Jimmy D. Love you man

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    Ron Gerber says

    Brother,
    As Bruce said- “when they built you brother, they broke the mold.”

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    Frances Luna says

    I am so sorry for your loss. Jimmy was a good person. Too young to have left us.

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    Gabrielle Mejia says

    Maddie, Anthony and Marisa… Our greatest times raising our kids was being in friendship with you. The closeness and laugher during those years we shall never forget. The wrestling parties w Rogie and Anthony were priceless and filled life with meaning. Jimmy gave us the greatest gift…laughter and light! We hold you all in prayer and hope you will find comfort in God’s promises. Roger, Gabbie, Desiree, Rogie and Raymond

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    Pete Palmore says

    Maddie, Anthony and Marisa,
    We are so sorry for your loss. Thankfully we have countless wonderful memories of the years our families spent growing up together on the same block. What great luck that we had each other! Jimmie was such a sincere friend and fun-loving Dad and “Uncle”. He will always be deeply missed and remembered with love.
    Pete, Kara, Michael, Jackie, and Haley

    • Catherine Kingsley says

      Maddie, I am so sorry for your loss

      You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. With sincere sympathy, Cathy

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    Nancy Clark says

    Maddie,
    I am so sorry to hear about Jimmy. Deepest condolences to you and your family.
    Nancy Clark (HFM)

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    Stacy wess says

    Jon and I are broken hearted for the loss of Jimmy. He was a gem and the love, light, and laughter he shared will be missed. Sending you all our love.

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