Mary Wankmueller, age 84, passed away on July 15, 2022. She was born December 1, 1937 in Newark, NJ. She is the daughter of the late William and the late Caroline (Heilman) Abline. In addition to her parents she was preceded in death by her beloved William Shaffery, her two brothers, Bill and George Abline, and sisters Ruth and Dorothy.
Mary was a competitive and avid bowler for many years under the USBC. She enjoyed dancing and celebrating life loudly, and often with family and friends. Her greatest joy was crocheting gifts for those she loved.
Mary is survived by her loving son William, daughters Rose, Elaine, and Kathleen, grandsons Mathew, Ian, granddaughters Amy, Caroline, Danielle, Ashley, and Alyssa, as well as several great grandchildren.
Calling hours will be Sunday, July 24, 2022 from 1-4 pm at Cochran Funeral Home, Inc., 905 High Street, Hackettstown, N.J. 07840.
The Funeral Service to celebrate her life will be held at 3:30 pm on Sunday, July 24, 2022 at Cochran Funeral Home, 905 High Street, Hackettstown, N.J. with Chaplin Mario Spadaro officiating. Those wishing to leave an online condolence may do so at www.cochranfuneral.com. For those desiring, donations may be made to Saint Jude Children’s Research Hospital, 501 St Jude Place Memphis, TN 38105-9959 in loving memory of Mary.

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Lillian Foy says
July 19, 2022 at 8:09 pmSo sorry for the loss of your Mother May she Rest In Peace .I know you have many fun memories of Her
Lillian and Michael Foy
Monica Hall says
July 19, 2022 at 9:44 pmMy deepest condolences to you and your family Kat, my heart goes out to all of you. With time your hearts will heal and you will be left with wonderful memories.
With love
Monica
Darlene Casale Ruthenbeck says
July 19, 2022 at 11:30 pmOur prayers are with y’all, What a life Aunt Mary had lived!
I had the most fun as a kid when Aunt Mary and y’all came to visit “down the shore’. The last time we talked on the phone, we laughed and laughed …that was her best asset that little giggle laugh! She will be missed. Prayers for peace as y’all celebrate Aunt Mary’s life and her legacy! Love, Peace Ken and Darlene (Casale) Ruthenbeck
Sabrina Chiapperino says
July 20, 2022 at 2:36 amMa, so many things I want to say and I can not find the words… you were my second mother. Thank you for giving me the sister I never had. Thank you for giving me the love a mother would give. Thank you for always being there. Thank you for always being honest. Thank you for being you ! I love you and will cherish all the memories we have had together. Rest In Peace. You will always be in my heart and prayers. ♥️♥️♥️
Jennifer Maroon says
July 21, 2022 at 11:39 amKat,
Sending love to you and your family during this sad time.
All our love,
Jenn, Alex, Anna, Dan, Marco and Addy
Mary Meyer says
July 22, 2022 at 3:43 pmKath, Bill, Rosie, Elaine & Family
I am so very sorry for your loss! She was one special lady!! My thoughts and Prayers go out to you all!!
Dawn Berta says
November 19, 2022 at 8:11 pmI was just thinking about Mary the other day. I worked with her at Sears. She was a pistol!! Loved her. I’m very sorry for your loss. She talked about her family all the time! Again my condolences.
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